In our modern lifestyles, success is paramount and the moment is forgotten. We are striving to achieve. It is bred into us from extra maths and ballet lessons at the age of 6 to the successful degrees we will achieve to the best job and the smartest car. It can be a stressful life. Our self-worth is conditional. We are only judged to be enough, if we are that wall street banker, or the owner of the cool car, or if we wear the best labels. And we document the journey to stardom in selfies that reflect an apparent barrenless existence. Perhaps we know how stressful it can be to be in relationship with someone on the off chance that they will make us feel better. We work to make them happy. Or make them feel proud of us. And we do this, usually because we have – at some stage, been parented by someone (not necessarily a parent), who made us feel less than, and only worthy – on condition that… . Animals, acc...